"Friendship is born at the moment when one person says to another, 'What! You too? I thought I was the only one'."

Friday, October 15, 2010

Green Bunny: Thirty-what?

Sarah: Are you turning 32 or 33 on Friday?
Lindsay: 33...why?
Sarah: Just wondering how you're feeling about that.
Lindsay: eh [insert shoulder shrug here]

Blank...didn't have a response. Sounds weird, but I was actually excited to turn 30. I was just done being in my twenties. I had done the college thing and the party thing and the nightclub thing...and I guess, it just didn't suit me.

Lindsay: 33 isn't a big deal. Maybe when I turn 36 and I'm rounding that bend to 40, I might freak out. But Oprah and Jennifer Aniston keep telling me that 40 is where it's at, so who knows. To be completely honest, I usually forget how old I am and have to do the math. And, let's face it...if it's about vanity, I still get carded. [Boo]

Here's a layout from 32...
My boyfriend Edward came to my birthday party at the Melting Pot. YUM!!! (...on both accounts.)


I LOVE this cupcake paper from Basic Grey. And, I finally used a birthday card that I had sitting on the sidelines for years, but loved too much to throw away...Yay.

Wednesday, October 13, 2010

The "Run"down

Crossing the finish line after the Rock N' Roll Half Marathon in Seattle.
"I decided to go for a little run." - Forrest Gump
I wanted this post to be a big deal, some major revelation about my passion for running.  Like, it gives me clarity and purpose or some b.s. like that.  But the reality is pretty straight forward: I started running to lose my baby weight for a friend's wedding and I was stunned by how fast it came off.  I continued running because I liked the way my swimsuit fit that summer.  I was hooked after I participated in my first 5k that fall, there's nothing like the rush of crossing the finish line after a lifetime of never excelling athletically in any way.  I run because I have an anxious personality, always worrying, but when I run my head is quiet.  And the crux of the matter: I run because I love to eat.  My metabolism, post-pregnancies and sans running, simply cannot keep up with my love for butter.  Bacon.  Chocolate.  Caramel.  Cheese.  Good wine.  Sigh.  So I run!

"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act but a habit." - Aristotle
I run, but I don't consider myself a runner.  I'm not alone. I've heard this over and over from friends, as if, if you weren't on the high school track team, you missed the lifetime registration deadline for "Runner Status". 

"Desire is the most important factor in the success of any athlete." - Willie Shoemaker
I run.  And I have a secret.  I want to run in the Boston Marathon to celebrate turning thirty (which gives me about three and a half years to train).  This sounds benign enough if you don't know what you're talking about, which I didn't when I originally had the idea.  They don't let "just anybody" run this race.  It's for the creme de la creme of runners--the seriously dedicated and, in my case, seriously delusional.  You have to qualify and it's no easy feat.  A female in my age group needs to run in a qualifying race and finish with a time of 3:40 or better...just under 9 minutes per mile.

Boston Marathon Qualifying Times Page
http://run350.blogspot.com/  -- A great blog by a Boston Marathoner who started out a lot like me. 

"Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up." - Thomas A. Edison
But don't worry, I have a back-up plan.  I'm raising three small children and it's entirely possible that my lofty ambitions could be thrown off course by life.  The Cape Cod Marathon is one of the top ten most scenic marathons in America and you don't have to qualify.  It's held in Falmouth, MA, which is about a hour and a half from Boston, and I've always wanted to visit New England.  An equally great way to celebrate turning the big 3-0!!  Am I selling myself short by having a back-up plan or just being realistic?  Can't decide.

"The difference between the mile and the marathon is the difference between burning your fingers with a match and being slowly roasted over hot coals." - Hal Higdon
My [only] 5k time was 28:33 and my half-mary time (see above picture) was 2:17, slowed down by significant running-related stomach issues that day.  I know how much better I could have done if I'd been running at 100%.  My personal best mile (ever) is 7:47 and that's not fast by any stretch of the imagination.  I'll never win a race, but that's not the point. 

"I still bother with runners I call hamburgers. They're never going to run any record times. But they can fulfill their own potential." - Bill Bowerman
I'm a hamburger.  And I'm looking for a marathon mentor: some benevolent woman out there just dying to take a novice runner under her wing... for free.  I'm not after much--just someone to follow around who has a clue what she's doing.  If you know someone who fits the bill, give me a shout.

Why do YOU run?  I'd love to hear about the passion and addiction from another perspective.  Happy running!

Happy Carving Everyone!

For everyone making their annual trips to the pumpkin patch...
LOVE this creepy crawly pumpkin! Visit The Family Fun website for Jack-o-Lantern patterns, Halloween crafts, recipes, and more.

And, look for a new post from Sarah coming later today!

Sunday, October 10, 2010

Joyeux Kitchen: [Meatless Monday] My Big, Fat Greek Salad


I went over to the McCabe's a month or so ago, hungry as usual, and Lindsay gave me a spoonful of something that closely resembled this recipe.  It was delicious.  Feta, cucumbers, a savory dressing, it was all very, very good.  It's not Doug-Food, which is what I usually make--he doesn't like feta, or olives, or vegetables in mass quantity like this--but that's okay because I'm happy eating the whole thing myself.  You could serve it as a side dish (on the side of a yummy, light fish entree maybe?) but I like it as the main course with a glass of vino. 

You'll need:
  • 1 cucumber, unpeeled and sliced 1/4 inch thick (or I used mini-cucs from Costco)
  • 1 red bell pepper, large-diced
  • 1 yellow bell pepper, large-diced
  • 1 pint of cherry or grape tomatoes, halved
  • 1/2 pound feta cheese, 1/2 inch diced (I used crumbled and it turned out great)
  • 1/2 cup calamata olives, pitted
 For the vinaigrette:
  • 2 cloves garlic, minced
  • 1 tsp dried oregano
  • 1/2 tsp dijon mustard
  • 1/2 cup good red wine vinegar (I used what it probably considered 'average' red wine vinegar and it was totally fine)
  • 1 tsp kosher salt
  • 1/2 tsp pepper
  • 1/2 cup good EVOO
The preparation is pretty straight forward.  Put all the chopped veggies in a bowl.  **The original recipe called for 1/2 red onion sliced into rounds also, but I don't like 'em so I left them out.  Combine the ingredients for the vinaigrette and shake it up (well, I shake it up--you could whisk it together too).  Pour the dressing over the veggies, add the cheese and olives and toss lightly.  Set aside for 30 minutes to allow the flavors to blend and serve at room temperature.  Enjoy!  I think it's even better the second day.

Ina Garten's original Greek salad recipe here.  Love that Barefoot Contessa.



Friday, October 8, 2010

My Baby Looks Like...


I'm always telling people that Holly's hair reminds me of Gene Wilder.  Who does your baby look like?  Send us an email and we'll publish the 3 funniest comparisons.


OH OH...me too, me too! I am completely addicted to Tori & Dean: Home Sweet Hollywood! I snapped this pic of my little man and thought it looked a lot like Liam! Carter's hair is actually about Liam's length now.


YAY! Another baby look-a-like...Cutie Caitlin here often gets the Shiloh Pitt-Jolie comparison. Thanks for playing, Abbey!


Thursday, October 7, 2010

Green Bunny: Fall At The Patch

Always one of my favorite outings with the kiddos!


For the locals: We love this farm...Scholz in Orting, WA.
This fourth-generation, working farm is incredibly kid-friendly with so much to do. Fall Harvest kicks off the first Saturday of October every year. And...oh yeah...it's FREE!

This outing was when we [gasp] only had three kids between us...and, man did they have fun. There is a huge sawdust mountain with trucks and diggers galore, many photo opps including some of the kids' favorite characters, a small pumpkin field for the little guys, farm animals, and more.

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Love The Way You Love Me

"Love is a verb."
(Dr. Gary Chapman)


This is Hannah.  She is my precious, precocious 3-year-old daughter.  It's amazing to me how different and unique each of my children are; I have to share something today that's been pressing on my heart for a while now.  A couple of years ago our MOPS group had a gal come talk to us about love languages.  The idea, from Gary Chapman's book The Five Love Languages, is that everyone has a 'love language' through which they can best connect, communicate, and receive love from those closest to them.  Here's a quick rundown of the languages:
  • Physical Touch
  • Words of Affirmation
  • Quality Time
  • Gifts
  • Acts of Service 
My little Hannah has been in the 'Physical Touch' category since she was tiny (I mean teeny tiny).  Gently stroking her chubby little legs put her into an almost-trance-like state as an infant.  She loves having her back rubbed and face touched.  She's super perceptive to the 'feel' of things: blankies, books with soft parts on the pages, itchy clothes or clothes with itchy tags, my scratchy legs or Doug's scratchy face if we haven't shaved.  She rubs her face on my leg (assuming it isn't scratchy) when she asks to snuggle on the couch.  When I'm angry with her she gets really close and touches my face with her hands and closes her eyes. 

Not everyone has such a clear preference.  Lindsay and I remember our MOPS table going back and forth, thinking we might be 'a little bit Quality Time' and 'a little bit Acts of Service,' and hemming and hawing about what our husbands might be (Physical Touch much?).  The point is, if you can identify your family members' love languages, you might be able to connect with them on a more satisfying level.  Chapman says most conflicts in relationships (with your spouse or otherwise) stem from two people speaking completely different love languages.  Another idea that really resonated with me is that by learning our childrens' love languages, we can be better prepared to keep their "love tanks" full.  Here are a few links that might help you figure it all out:

Quiz To Determine Your Own Love Language
(My results were: Quality Time and Acts of Service... Doug would say, "Duh.")
Love Languages
How To Work With The Love Languages Of Children

Monday, October 4, 2010

You've Got Mail...Kids!

Seriously! Here's something that I am doing to preserve the everyday, silly memories that maybe wouldn't have a place in (or ever make it to) the baby book.

I opened a gmail account for both Logan and Carter (gmail accounts are free).

I know it sounds strange that my babies have email accounts, but it works! Whenever we have a funny day or they say or do something that makes me smile and think, "I don't want to forget that", I email a quick note. No one else has the email address and I don't do it daily. But, just think how often you are sitting at your email vs. pulling out the baby book. I also find that it is more representative of my speaking voice when I tell stories about them rather than small blurbs written in the tiny spaces of a baby book.

I started this almost two years ago and Logan currently has about 11 emails from me and Carter has 5, so it is not CRAZY time consuming, but it is a way to keep those little memories intact for one tired mama. Haven't decided if/when I will print them...make a book...I don't know? I have faith in gmail that they are safe for the moment until I decide what to do with them.

Samples of what I say to my kids over email (tired mama typos and all):

To Logan:
















To Carter:
















Definitely something to try!

Sunday, October 3, 2010

Joyeux Kitchen: Crockpot Bourguignon


I left the theater after seeing "Julie and Julia" starving, salivating, and ready to chef it up.  Somebody throw me an apron, find my pearls, and let's do this thing!  The recipe for Julia's Boeuf Bourguignon (Beef Stew in Red Wine with Bacon, Onions, and Mushrooms) wasn't hard to find, but after giving it a once-over it became apparent that I wasn't going to have time for this painstakingly fussy French dish.  No big deal, Doug wouldn't eat the mushrooms in the original recipe anyway.  This variation is from 3 different recipes, mainly Julia Child's, but hers takes 4+ hours and this one takes maybe an hour and then cooks all day (or night) in the crockpot. It is GOOD.

You'll need:
  • 4 slices good bacon, julienned
  • 2 tbsp. olive oil
  • 2 lbs. stew meat (cubed sirloin tip or round steak)
  • 1/4 cup flour
  • **1 tsp. salt, 1/2 tsp. seasoned salt (Johnny's), 1/4 tsp. marjoram, 1/4 tsp. thyme, 1/4 tsp. pepper, 1-2 cloves minced garlic (I used a heaping tsp.) all combined in a bowl**
  • 1 cup Burgundy wine (Julia says: Beaujolais, Cotes du Rhone or Burgundy..I've used good Zinfandel too) 
  • 1 tsp. beef bouillon granules
  • 1 cup beef broth
  • 1 heaping tbsp. tomato paste
  • 1/2 tsp. sugar
  • 3 carrots, 3 ribs of celery, 2 sweet onions, all medium chopped and set aside
In skillet, cook bacon pieces several minutes until crisp. Remove and set aside. DRY YOUR BEEF with paper towels. Put beef and flour in a bowl, toss to coat. Add olive oil to bacon fat, bring almost to smoking hot, add beef and brown on all sides. Put beef, crisp bacon, drippings from pan, seasonings, garlic, bouillon granules and wine into the crockpot. Warm up the cup of broth and add the tomato paste and sugar to it, heat and stir until combined and then add to crockpot. Top with all the chopped veggies. (The meat has to be on the bottom so it's completely covered with liquid.) Put the lid on and cook on low 10 hours; I cooked it overnight for a total of about 12 and it was awesome.

When ready to serve, use a slotted spoon to move only the beef to a covered dish. Put a strainer over a big sauce pan and push the sauce and veggies through the strainer with a spatula. Discard (or eat with spoon) the mash that is leftover in the strainer. Bring the liquid to a boil, turn down to a simmer and reduce to desired thickness. I served it over baked potatoes; she recommends potatoes, noodles or rice.

Paul Child: What is it you REALLY like to do?
Julia Child: Eat!
"Bon appetit!" :)

And for Ina Garten's Sour Cream Mashed Potatoes
You'll need:
  • 3 pounds boiling potatoes, peeled (I like Yukon Gold)
  • Kosher salt
  • 1 1/2 cups milk
  • 6 tbsp butter
  • 1/2 cup sour cream
  • 1/2 tsp pepper
Cube the potatoes and place them in a large pot.  Cover them with cold water and add enough salt so the water tastes quite salty.  Bring to a boil, then lower the heat and simmer, uncovered, for 10-12 minutes, until the potatoes fall apart easily when pierced with a fork.  Meanwhile, heat the butter and milk in a small saucepan, making sure it doesn't boil.  Set aside until potatoes are done.  Drain potatoes in a colander.  Ina recommends putting them in a food mill at this point but I just toss them into the bowl of my Kitchenaid with the paddle attachment.  Mash the taters and slowly add enough of the milk/butter mixture to make the potatoes very creamy.  Add 2 tsps of salt (more or less to taste) and the sour cream and pepper and whisk to combine.  Taste for seasoning and serve hot.

Friday, October 1, 2010

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